Can You Ever be Too Thankful?

Wow, what a December. After much debate, stress, confining ourselves to the same five rooms in our respective homes for weeks, Covid tests, and a very long drive for my daughter, I got to see two of my three kids for the holidays.

When my daughter finally got here, we greeted each other with what may go down in history as the longest, most emotional hug we’ve ever had. Covid has a way of making you realize how much you have to lose, and we both knew it. I hadn’t seen her in almost a year, and couldn’t have been happier. I’m very thankful for that.

Her tearful reunion with Topper was well documented and although he’s pretty blind and a little wobbly now that he’s almost 105 in dog years, they re-bonded on the floor. Another thank you moment.

After Andy tested negative, he came home and we spent weeks together doing what families do. Eating, doing dishes, trying to overlook the little things about each other that drive us nuts, me giving my children my best advice, them countering by giving me their best advice, baking, figuring out what gifts their brother, Brandon and his family in Chicago would love, wrapping packages, singing while decorating the tree, and figuring out what to eat next. I hope I remember to never take any of that for granted again.

We got all our favorite LA food including Tommy’s burgers, Thai Food, Panda Express, tacos, pizza and wings, and more.

Then for our early Christmas Eve we made steamed crab, shrimp, and Pasta with Scallops and Curry Cream Sauce, then watched the Muppet Christmas Carol. I nodded off in the middle as usual, but woke to Scrooge making amends for his evil ways, leaving me ever thankful for Jim Henson, the Muppet creator who left us way too soon, and his son, Brian, the director. It’s entertained us every Christmas Eve for 28 years.

Milena made it back to Washington safely, leaving me and my son to celebrate Christmas alone, sustained by the most amazing rib roast dinner I’ve ever had. I’d never made a rib roast for Christmas, and am trying to cut down/cut out red meat, but this was so good I’d happily forego red meat all year if I could have this roast for Christmas from now on. I also made popovers with a bit too much butter in the pan and set the smoke alarm off. We also had sauteed spinach with garlic, roasted Brussels Sprouts with balsamic vinegar, and garlic mashed potatoes.

I found the roast recipe on a website called Tin Eats. The only thing I would change is the wine gravy. I’d add less wine and more beef stock, but it was good nevertheless. I am really thankful for this recipe. Here’s the link: Standing Rib Roast Recipe

We ate the roast, which was the size of a 1960 Cadillac, for days, then made soup with the meaty bones, leeks, garlic and potatoes, which was fantastic.

Andy and I will be together until the New Year. His conversation skills are a vast improvement over Topper’s. He also does dishes and helps me get through leftovers fast. His only drawback is he eats his own weight in tomatoes daily and seems unable to use less than five different glasses for water every two to three hours. But I’m very thankful to have someone here who seems to enjoy spending time with me.

And speaking of tomatoes, he’s been making his favorite new breakfast of Tomato Egg. It’s a dish Chinese grandmothers have been making for ages and my son believes he’s perfected it. I’m grateful he’s inherited my passion for tweaking a recipe. It’s made with brown rice, tomatoes, eggs and sprinkled with scallions. It’s a delicious and healthy way to start the New Year.

Sure, it would have been great to have had our annual Christmas Eve Fish fest, and yes, we all missed being together in Pennsylvania and Ohio, but it’ll be that much better when we do get together, hopefully next year. In the meantime, I’m just practicing gratitude for what I do have.

Lastly, I’m thankful for you my readers. Your comments always make my day and I hope this blog brightens yours at least half as much. I wish you health, happiness, good food, and family and friends to get together with as soon as it’s safe. Can you ever be too thankful? I think 2020 has taught us that’s simply not possible.

The bar is low, so I think the chances of 2021 being better than 2020 are pretty good!

HAPPY NEW YEAR!

Tomato Egg

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