Ever try a recipe and think, Wow, this is so good, it couldn’t possibly be better? That’s what happened to me in 2014. Then you make the recipe again, change something, and think, Whoa, I am a genius! I had my genius moment with lemon ricotta cookies, a recipe I got years ago from Theresa, my ex’s lovely first wife and all round good human. The first time…
I’ve been enjoying the tentative little tendrils poking their tiny heads out of the ground wondering if it’s OK to be out. They must know these are dangerous times. Old Man Winter can come back and blow through at any moment. But the more days we get in the 50s and 60s, the bolder they get. Daffodils don’t give a damn. As soon as there’s a thaw, they…
I was at Giant Eagle today. It’s a strange name for a grocery store and people here often pronounce it as Jiiiihn Iggle, but at least it’s not a Piggly Wiggly. I was browsing because I just got my refund from Social Security and was feeling as flush as a retiree on Social Security can feel, so I decided to stock up a bit. I was looking at…
Happy Valentine’s Day! I wish you happiness on this love-fest of a day, which I detested in college because the parade of flowers always went to the other girls, but never to me or my close friends. Of course I was jealous! Who doesn’t want someone who you’re crazy about to love you back and lavish you with gifts? I’d like to say I’m much more mature now…
I was scrolling through my phone today to find the number of someone whose last name I forgot. That doesn’t generally happen so don’t call the dementia squad yet. (I just made that up – and apparently there really IS a Demential Squad…Dear God!) As I was scrolling, hoping this friend’s name would jump out, I saw names in there that made me ask…Who the. hell are you?…
Watching Ted Lasso, last fall, I could not shake the image of Ted’s boss sensually biting into the biscuits Ted brought her each morning. The look of satisfied, dare I say, orgasmic pleasure on her face was something I would love to see on my face fairly frequently. As you may recall, I recommended Ted Lasso to you because it renews ones faith in humans, and let’s face…
The new year is a great time for beating the crap out of yourself. Lamenting everything you haven’t done, comparing yourself to everyone who seems to be doing better, and then not doing the things you resolved to do because you’ve already thrown in the towel, saying, what difference will it make? I’ve never been known for my wisdom in knowing the difference between things I can change…
“We were so poor, I was lucky if I got an orange on Christmas,” my father always told me. He seemed to marvel at his good fortune, via hours of bricklaying work, to be able to give his four kids gifts on Christmas. I never thought twice about getting any toy I saw repeatedly advertised on Saturday morning cartoons. I started begging for my desired prize months ahead…
Anatomy of a Bed by Anderson Mills
December 21, 2024This week, I’m lucky enough to have Andy, Milena and her boyfriend here for the holidays. I’m in my usual flurry of crazed activity, making last minute cookies and favorite dishes and putting final touches on beds so they look like the perfect beds you see in Pottery Barn catalogues. I’m clearly not taking my own advice about not fretting over how the place looks. Luckily, my sweet…
This is a re-post of a blog from 2014. The year I started blogging…so Happy Anniversary to me! And thank you to my friend, Linda Friday, who beat me into submission so I would start blogging. I’ve loved sharing my memories and hope you’ve enjoyed them too. A Series of Unfortunate Trees I’ve spent the last week running around furiously trying to get all my shopping done and…








