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Girls Get to Play Too

May 17, 2024

In the 1960s, baseball, football, soccer, basketball, track and any other sports were only for boys. Girls could jump rope, roller skate, twirl batons, play backyard badminton, and become cheerleaders.

I was 9-years-old when my brother Bernie taught me to throw a football. I remember my mother yelling to me and my brother that catching the football near my chest was going to ruin my bosom. I could have died.

When I was 16, they finally allowed girls to participate in track in my high school. That was only a few years after finally letting girls wear pants to school, which was a huge victory.

So, when I go out for my daily walk, I feel so proud as I pass little girls on the softball field playing their guts out. I love that their dads and moms are out there with them, fully supporting their participation.

Those girls, and maybe even their moms and dads, have no idea how hard women had to fight just so they could enjoy a sport. Katherine Switzer was one of the first to break barriers in sports. In 1967 she signed up to run in the Boston Marathon and was physically attacked by one of the members of the Boston Athletic Association, the group putting on the race. The man, Jock Semple, yelled at her and swiped at the numbers she was wearing on her shirt in an attempt to force her out of the race. Her then boyfriend threw a cross body block at Semple and knocked him away. All Switzer wanted to do was finish the race, which she did.

When I was a freshman in college Billie Jean King famously took on Bobby Riggs, who said women’s tennis was so inferior that even he, a 55-year old could beat a woman. 90 million viewers watched what was called, “The Battle of the Sexes,” on September 20, 1973 and saw 29-year-old Billie Jean King beat Bobby Riggs in three straight sets in the Houston Astrodome.

There have been many, many more, but that’s how sexist it was when I was young, so I can’t help but smile every time I see those little girls playing in their team shirts. This post is my thank you to the women who fought to tear down barriers so girls could finally participate like boys. There’s still more work to do, but I savor the moment every time I walk past.

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  • Reply
    dkouyias
    May 18, 2024 at 5:44 pm

    Fran you grew up years later than me and across country. How can it be there where you were socially behind ?
    I didn’t just watch in the
    Time of ‘53-60!
    We did softball,track,broad jump,shot put,volleyball, four square,soccers was just coming out . Yes,right here in glendale ,ca.Keppel Elementary! I still have ribbons I won for shot put & broad jump ! Rode my bike 🚲 all over town ,steel skates & built my box scooter. Built lots of things . My father gave me my hammers, saw & nails at 4 . Taught me how to use . Along with learned to ride my 2 wheel bike at 4 (no training wheels.) My incredible parents encouraged us and be well educated , not limited because we were 5 girls!

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      Fran Tunno
      May 21, 2024 at 10:54 am

      Perhaps CA was way ahead of us, but being a family of immigrant parents raised in Italy in the early 1920s, we were told girls didn’t do certain things. Western PA took a while to catch up. We could play dodge ball at elementary school, and could ride our bikes, we roller skated too, but when it came to participating in organized sports like baseball, track, or basketball, etc. girls weren’t allowed. They finally let us run track when we were juniors in high school, I think. I learned to be self-sufficient and knew a lot about how to fix things like electric plugs, and how to pound nails. because my dad was a bricklayer and fix it man. I learned to cook and clean and so did my brothers, my mom made sure of that, but I’m specifically talking about organized sports.

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    JoAnn
    May 17, 2024 at 8:47 pm

    I have granddaughters who love sports and have run cross country , been on swim teams , danced and participated in track & field. So proud that they’ve learned team work , perseverance, and love of sports.
    Girl Power ❤️😊

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      Fran Tunno
      May 17, 2024 at 11:34 pm

      Girl Power Indeed JoAnn! I am so happy for them that sports are something they can take for granted. We make progress inch by inch! Tell them I’m proud of them too!

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    Mandy Gustafsen
    May 17, 2024 at 2:13 pm

    awesome story!

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      Fran Tunno
      May 17, 2024 at 11:32 pm

      Thanks Mandy, not much of a story, just a reflection. I was surprised at how happy just seeing them made me feel!

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    Julia Shure
    May 17, 2024 at 9:44 am

    My high school was slow to implement Title IX so I couldn’t play sports but my youngest sister, Bridget benefitted. She joined the track and cross country team and has been a runner her entire life. A few years ago she came in 3rd in the Boston Marathon in her age group! And my girls played sports which enriched their lives — they learned all that teamwork/leadership stuff I missed!

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      Fran Tunno
      May 17, 2024 at 1:23 pm

      If it’s any comfort Julia, you were always a wonderful team player with me! But I totally get it. It’s nice to see girls working together instead of being pitted against each other.

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    Emil Mitchell
    May 17, 2024 at 9:36 am

    And so it remains a necessity to educate our children of the history of this country and the challenges that had to be overcome. I pray the parents continue to do as such so the youth of today can meet and overcome the challenges of tomorrow! Thank you for this post Ms Fran which teaches perseverance to all!

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      Fran Tunno
      May 17, 2024 at 1:29 pm

      Emil, you are so sweet! Thanks for the sentiment, I completely agree. And thanks for taking the time to respond!

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    ASHLEY HEAD
    May 17, 2024 at 5:56 am

    I vividly remember wanting to join the girl’s softball league recruiting in my town but I was told, ‘Baseball isn’t for girls’ so I was signed up to be a pee wee football cheerleader. The worst part was that my Dad’s store sponsored (and was on the uniform) of my female cousin’s Baseball jersey. Not only was she on the team but my Dad was the sponsor? It became glaringly clear that the person holding me back for sexist reasons was actually my Mom.

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      Fran Tunno
      May 17, 2024 at 7:49 am

      I hear ya Ashley. When I was a kid I wanted to play the drums. Only it was my dad who told me, drums aren’t for girls. Why don’t you play the flute? And there went my drumming dream. I may buy some conga drums now just for fun!

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