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The Man Who Never Stopped Directing

September 11, 2015

When I first started recording audiobooks, every book was a combination of thrill and anxiety. I got the book — thrill. I’d pre-read the book — anxiety — more characters than I realized. I’d make up character voices — thrill. I’d worry they might be off — anxiety.

Walking across the pink brick entrance to Deyan Audio,  I was a basket of nerves. But as I opened the front door I’d hear Bob Deyan loudly announce my name, “Fran Tunno!” as if it was the Tonight Show and I was the big star. Dressed in a Hawaiian shirt and khaki pants, Bob would give me a big hug and ask, “How ya doing kiddo?”

Any worries I had up to that point would begin to fade. I’d head to the kitchen, grab water and a hot cup of tea, and head up the carpeted stairs, past all the framed audiobook awards, to my silent recording booth. Bob would come in, mock me for being short, lower the mike to my height, then have me say a few lines to check recording levels.

Once I settled into the comfy leather chair, Bob encouraged me to sit back, relax and just enjoy telling the story. A story that was always better with him in the director’s chair.

Bob and Debra

Bob and Debra holding the Lifetime Achievement Award from the Audio Publishers Association.

He taught me so many things:

End a chapter with finality.

Anger doesn’t have to be loud — quietly sinister works just fine.

Trust your gut.

Those are three that stand out. If I felt a line or a character didn’t sound right, it probably didn’t. We’d both look up at the same time and say, “Let’s do that line over again.”

There were times when I’d be reading a really sexual part of a book, and we’d both simultaneously burst into uncontrollable laughter. I have no idea how two mental seventh graders like us ever finished a book.

Then Bob was diagnosed with ALS. You’d think it would have slowed down his directing, but no. I remember visiting him after the tracheotomy tube was placed in his throat. The man could hardly breathe, yet the first thing he asked me between gasps was, “Fran, are you done with the book yet?” He was asking about the memoir about my mom that I’d been working on for years. I answered, “No Bob,” and he replied, “Get it done.” (Thank God it’s done now.)

Then a minute later, “Fran, are you dating anyone yet?” I answered, “No, not yet, Bob,” and he took another gasping breath and responded, “You better start, you’re not getting any younger.”

There’s no stopping a director.

Bob and Deb ill

This heartbreaking photo was taken by Roman Cho, an amazing photographer.

And even as the illness progressed, Bob let them hook him up to every apparatus, so he could live out whatever days he had left. He said he wanted people to see the face of ALS, a face captured by photographer, Roman Cho, in a heartbreaking photo I’ll never forget.

After Bob passed away last August, a lot of people ran out of steam. “He’s gone now, what difference will it make whether we raise money or not?” That’s something I’ve heard a lot and even felt myself.

But here’s why we have to.

The Billion for Bob 2014 Ice Bucket Challenge.

The Billion for Bob 2014 Ice Bucket Challenge.

#1 Because I have no interest in Bob haunting my dreams night after night with, “Fran, have you raised my billion dollars yet?”

#2. Someone, somewhere, just as sweet as Bob, is going to be told today that he or she has ALS and 7,000 people will die from it this year.

#3. The Washington Post says researchers studying ALS are crediting last year’s donations of over $220 million, and massive public interest in the disease, with fueling breakthroughs in research.

Bob wanted us to raise a billion dollars.  That may be what it takes to find a cure, or maybe Bob was just an overachiever. Either way, we have to do it because I have no doubt his spirit is watching each of us to see if we follow through on his direction. I’m not about to let him down.

Please click on this link to buy tickets to our concert fundraiser next Friday , September 18th from 7 to 9 p.m. at Deyan Audio, in Northridge, California.  Bill Cantos and Mari Falcone will thrill us with their incredible music.  There will be great food and yummy baked goods donated by yours truly. Please cancel whatever plans you have and come! Tickets are only $50 and all proceeds go to ALS.

If you can’t come because you live far away, then please donate. Here is a link to the donation page. Scroll down and you’ll see where to click and donate. You can donate under my name, Fran Tunno Mills, or any name.

Also, if you’re an audiobook reader and want to learn inside tips, here’s a link to an Audiobook Webinar Fundraiser on September 24th, featuring, the amazing Scott Brick, Debra Deyan, Julie Williams, Claudia Howard of Recorded Books and Paul Gagne of Weston Woods, all top names in audiobooks. It’s only $50.00, you’ll learn from the best in the business, and your donation will go to the Bob Deyan ALS Nurse Fund, (which Debra started) to help pay for the nursing care ALS patients so desperately need. It’s win/win!

Donations of any amount are very much appreciated and DO make a difference, so please do what you can, so we can raise Bob’s billion and leave ALS in the dust.

Thank you for your awesome support and for always reading! Next post, I’ll fill you in on how my no swearing effort is coming along. Let’s just say it’s been a challenge.

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    Who Will ALS Take Next? – At Fran's Table
    April 1, 2019 at 11:12 pm

    […] Bob didn’t let his illness stop him. He directed things to the very end, almost embracing ALS’ cruelty, but ALS took him too.  (Here’s a link to my blog from last year about him called, The Man Who Never Stopped Directing.) […]

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    Who Will ALS Take Next? | At Fran's Table
    August 5, 2016 at 5:23 pm

    […] And the end is very ugly and cruel — people who are completely mentally conscious are trapped in a body that won’t breathe, move, or swallow. I remember visiting Bob, who looked gaunt and haggard. I did my best acting when I went in, with a joke about his new stubble being sexy and ruggedly handsome. I patted his head and we chatted. Bob didn’t let his illness stop him. He directed things to the very end, almost embracing ALS’ cruelty, but ALS took him too.  (Here’s a link to my blog from last year about him called, The Man Who Never Stopped Directing.) […]

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    Linda Korn
    September 17, 2015 at 1:40 pm

    Great post Fran! Bob is worth a billion!

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      Fran Tunno
      September 18, 2015 at 8:59 am

      Thank you Linda, I think so too! Thanks for taking the time to read and comment!

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    September 16, 2015 at 8:49 am

    I donated, Fran. Every little bit helps. Good luck on the walk!

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      Fran Tunno
      September 17, 2015 at 12:02 pm

      Thanks Mary, every little bit DOES help and your contribution is every bit as important as any others. Thank you!

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    Matilda Novak
    September 13, 2015 at 10:19 pm

    i so love and miss my Pal…. What a privilege to learn from and be directed by Bob Deyan! Thank you for this, Fran. i know that the “Billion for Bob” will one day come to pass. Just wish i were in a better position to give these days…..

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      Fran Tunno
      September 14, 2015 at 9:23 am

      Thanks Matilda, for always reading and taking the time to respond. I hope that day does come to pass. I understand about the giving part! It’s not easy these days. We all just do what we can.

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    September 12, 2015 at 10:01 am

    I wish I could be in Northridge, but the commute from Idaho is too long. But, I followed the donation link and put my small drop in your bucket. Still crying, Fran. Beautiful.

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      Fran Tunno
      September 12, 2015 at 11:17 am

      Thank you Linda. He was a great guy with a great spirit, which I believe is still very much alive. We all miss him terribly. Thanks for reading and donating!

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    September 11, 2015 at 1:10 pm

    Bob is loving this post from above, Fran. Well done (as always)!

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      Fran Tunno
      September 11, 2015 at 3:27 pm

      Love you Nicol, as always. Thank you!

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